About us
About Sub Dom Finder
A dedicated home for Doms, Dommes, subs and switches to meet with consent, discretion and respect. No vanilla swiping, no explaining yourself, no judgement.
Why we exist
Because kink deserves better than a footnote
On mainstream apps, BDSM is something you hint at and hope. Sub Dom Finder flips that. Here, your role, your kinks and your limits are the first thing people see, so the conversation starts where it should.
Sub Dom Finder has been running for several years as a dom finder and BDSM dating site, with members across the United States, the United Kingdom and beyond.
What we stand for
Three things we don’t compromise on
Consent
Safe, sane and consensual is not a slogan here. It’s the rule. Limits are respected and “no” ends the conversation.
Discretion
Safe usernames, location privacy and discreet billing. What you’re into stays between you and the people you choose.
Respect
Abuse, threats and harassment break our Terms and can cost an account its place here. Treat every member with courtesy, whichever side of the dynamic they’re on.
How we’re run
Part of a wider dating network
Sub Dom Finder is run on an established dating platform that operates a number of connected sites. That means more potential matches, a support team behind you and safety tools that run across the network. It also means your profile may be visible on partner sites run under the same terms.
Read the summary of the terms, see how we keep members safe, or browse help & FAQ.
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