Experiment with BDSM relationships in our kinky community. Whether you seek a willing submissive or tough dominant, find your perfect playmate here. Unleash your kinky desires and fetishes in our community. Our members are ready to explore BDSM dating with someone new.
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Join a community where you can freely explore every, and all fetishes. Experiment with submission, dominance, bondage and everything in between. Your next playmate could be right around the corner.
STEP ONE
Kinky Community
Quick and simple process to become a Sub Dom Finder member. Create your account by providing your personal details, preferences, kinks and fetishes.
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STEP TWO
Meet Your Playmates
Be instantly matched with submissives, dominants or fetish lovers that can fulfil your desires. Find various local playmates or kinks from across the country.
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STEP THREE
Browse The Feed
Explore all member content in the news feed. Post statuses, blogs and naughty images. Find lasting sub-dom relationships and kinky connections.
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STEP FOUR
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Become an exclusive member when you upgrade to VIP membership. Unlock our exclusive features and intensify your BDSM dating experiences.
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Our community features are specifically designed for BDSM playmates, fetish lovers and kinky singles. Explore your desires and increase your chances of finding a thrilling BDSM encounter.
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Contact us when you need additional assistance.
We are here to answer any questions you may have. You can contact our customer care team who are available 24 hours. We have listed some of our common questions below.
Sub Dom Finder is completely free to join, message members, view their profiles and photos and arrange to meet up. If you want completely unrestricted communications (all limits removed) then we ask that you upgrade to become a VIP member. This is completely optional however, and you do not need to be VIP to use Sub Dom Finder.
A VIP member is one of the awesome people who have paid a small fee to upgrade their membership and help support the site financially. VIP’s get a load of great features to say thanks for their support such as unlimited messaging, priority customer support and can see who's viewed your profile.
Your personal email and details will never be shown on the site, and you have complete control over what you choose to share with other members. You can rest assured that your privacy is one of our prime concerns, and we will never share any of your information with 3rd parties.
Will you Spam my Inbox? No. Our email systems are SenderScore certified. We only use your email to notify you of any activity on your profile but you can always opt out.
Once you’ve joined for free, you will have access to a bustling, vibrant community of people looking to chat, make friends, casual fun and more. You can get to know other members by instant messaging and commenting on statuses. Our members also have some great blogs to help you get to know them better.
